I am Wrong; You are not Right either;

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"Life is a book with lots of unread pages"

It is the family, upbringing and values taught or learnt build the "FOUNDATION" for life. For many fortunate ones, all that is essential ingredients for leading ideal life. All of all strive towards it. It is our conscious, or  call it ethics or whatever that guides us in building relationships in the society. Well, each culture, social norms and structures differ from person to person, place to place, society to society , religion to religion and country to country. It is like going round and round, as culture, values, socail norms are all interlinked and inter connected. As far as the ethics is concerned, it is more or else the same in all the society. It is not surprising to see some of the socail norms and values  are similar in most of the society.

Hinduism or Hindu Dharma also known as "Sanathana Dharma" propogates higest ethical value of  "TOLERANCE". I find it true over a period after going through the historical evidnaces and Indian history at various stages the Value sysytem  has been the core Principal of guidance for individuals and individuals in society. "Do good, Be good and good will come to you"- is one of the most commonly used and practiced  throughout the world.

But the reward the doer of good gets is horrible. One has to see, sit, talk, share feel and experiennce with the individuals who have done good for individuals, irrespective of class, caste. nature, society, and religion.  As the English saying goes-"One man's food is another man's poison".  Similar is the situation of the individuals who do good and only good for others-be it in kind, or through service, referal (this is most dangerous ), monetarily or even by moral support. Everything is greenary for certain period. Then the greenary turns into hey dust.

I have also seen and experienced that individuals good nature and intensions are taken advantage off and is often exploited for selfish causes. Why so?  There is no answer and  no reasoning too.  But yes, this is also happening around many who feel the act of goodness pricking them like a thorn. This is happens to those who have selflessly rendered help or service with open mind and clean intension of "Dharmo Rakshati Rakshitaha" and are decieved and labelled as "Wrong, inhuman, valueless, characterless, ill tempered, ill mannered, biased,  and so on......."

Hey!!! beleive me  this is the true reward one gets, still I have seen individualsdusting the remarks and moving on. Some  share, some yell, some cry or some with draw from the relation and some still continue  with out complaining. Somewhere, I know all those labelledd as "WRONG"  too realize that all that happened with them was just unfair and incorrect. They feel the pitch pricking worst than thorn's prick with the tears rolling down the clear eyes with abrupt smile. Over a period individuals with similar experiences on and on, breaks down in his or her own eyes and becomes aproblem for himself/herself and for others





It is a lesson and one need to learn to be more assertive while dealing with human animal- No matter if you are labelled as Aggressive, Proud, Paranoid or so.  IT HELPS and also does WONDERS!!!
All those consoling words "Be Positive", "Nobody is Perfect", "To live a creative life one must one must loose the fear of being Wrong".... have little or no impact. Individual is up again with his /her own self confidence and continuous to be same helping others selflessly.



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